The Blessed Bread (Naan-e-Sangak)

Symbolism: Prosperity

This special Persian bread is placed on the Sofreh to symbolize abundance and sustenance in the couple’s life.

Assortment of Herbs & Spices (Aatel-o-Baatel)

Symbolism: Protection from the Evil Eye

A mix of herbs and spices like poppy seeds (khashkhash), rice (berenj), fennel seeds (raziyane), and frankincense is arranged on a tray. These ingredients are believed to protect the couple from negative energy.

Honey (Asal)

Symbolism: Sweetness of Life

After the couple’s marriage is official, they dip their pinky fingers into honey and feed it to each other, symbolizing the sweetness of their new life together.

Rock Candy (Shaakheh-e-Nabaat)

Symbolism: Happiness

A bowl of rock candy is placed on the Sofreh to symbolize joy and happiness in the couple’s life.

Persian Rose Water (Gol-ab)

Symbolism: Purity and Grace

A cup of rose water, typically extracted from the Damask rose (Gol-e-Mohammadi), sweetens the air and symbolizes purity, grace, and beauty.

Traditional Embroidered Cloth (Toor-e-Ghand)

Symbolism: Shared Home

This embroidered cloth is held over the couple’s heads during the sugar rubbing ceremony, symbolizing the home they will build together

Sweet & Pastries (Shirini)

Symbolism: Abundance and Celebration

Persian sweets such as baklava, noghl (sugar-coated almonds), and sohan asali (saffron almond brittle) are offered to guests after the ceremony, symbolizing abundance and joy.

The Book (Ketaab)

Symbolism: Wisdom and Guidance

A religious or literary text—such as the Avesta, Bible, Qur’an, or Torah—is placed on the Sofreh. Some families include poetry books like Shahnameh, Hafez or Rumi, representing wisdom and spiritual guidance.

(We will be having a book of poetry)

Sugar Cones (Kalleh Ghand)

Symbolism: Sweetness and Prosperity

Sugar loaves are rubbed over the couple’s heads to sprinkle sweetness and happiness onto their marriage.

Needle & Thread (Nakh-o-Soozan)

Symbolism: Bonding of Destinies

A needle threaded with seven threads is used to sew a few stitches into the unity cloth, symbolizing the couple’s destinies intertwined.

Fruits (Meeveh)

Symbolism: Fertility and Abundance

Apples, pomegranates, and grapes are placed on the Sofreh to symbolize fertility, abundance, and eternal life.

Mirror and Candelabra (Ayneh-ye-Bakht va Shamdaan)

Symbolism: Light and Clarity

The mirror symbolizes the couple’s first look at one another, while candles represent light, clarity, and the bright future ahead.

Wheat (Gandom)

Symbolism: Prosperity

A small container of wheat is included to symbolize prosperity and a rich life for the couple.

Sugar Clusters (Noghl)

Symbolism: Sweetness of Life

Sugar clusters represent the sweetness of the couple’s life together and the joy that their marriage will bring.

Q + A

Will there be alcohol?

What time is the wedding over?

Is this a child-free wedding?